Wednesday, November 18, 2015


According to Webster's, the definition of the word broken is "separated into parts or pieces by being hit, damaged, etc; not working properly; not kept or honored."  I also like the definition "made weak or infirm".

One glance at the headlines from across the world and it's easy to see that they are rife with polarizing issues.  I don't need to name those issues here, as I'm sure most of you are already aware of some or all of them.  On the one hand, it's a good thing, because such news generates many healthy discussions about varying opinions on the issues.  But on the other, it is heartbreaking to see how people are viciously attacking any opinion that differs from their own on one or all of the issues. There is so much anger, division, intolerance and violence in the world.  Do I really need to add to it by forcing my own opinions down the throats of others without regard to the common courtesy and respect that must go hand in hand with discussions such as these?  While I'm not there yet, I'm half-tempted to shut down my Facebook page because of this very thing.

Jimmy Kimmel named a day earlier this week "National Unfriend Day".  (Side note: If the name Biz Markie means anything to you, check out his Ode to Unfriend Day here.  I found it fairly entertaining).  Why would I unfriend people or shut down my Facebook page?  Because people do not share the same opinions as I do on the issues?  No!  I can and do respectfully disagree with people and discuss those disagreements on Facebook or in person.  I love to know what people think and why they think what they think. Ya think?  Have I been disrespectful in those discussions?  Probably in some cases.  But I try not to be that way.

One of the amazing things about this country is that we get to choose so many things for ourselves.  I don't know about you, but I often take those privileges for granted.  Even something as simple as going to the church of your choice, or choosing to not attend church at all, is something we are very fortunate to have. But in being granted those freedoms, many in this country are also grossly uninformed and easily swayed by the majority without having all of the facts first, and rather forcefully share their opinions on these topics in rather forceful ways, regardless of who they might offend or hurt with their words.  It doesn't make me mad, or want to unfriend them, unfollow them, or anything of the sort.  What it does do is BREAK MY HEART.  It makes me sad to know that we can sit behind our screens and share opinions with little to no regard for the people we share them with. Many will read this and say "If you don't like what's on my social media page, then don't read it.". To some degree, I don't entirely disagree with that, depending on the issue being discussed.  But at the same time, if we could collectively change the tone of our posts and differences to discuss them respectfully,  rather than to prove that we are right and everyone else is wrong, what could that be like?

To put it into a nutshell, the world is a broken place.  People everywhere are hurting, struggling, dying, broken in some way. Or worse.  To quote a song that is not all that pleasing to my ears, but one that is right on the money lyric-wise -  "What the world needs now, is love, sweet love.  It's the only thing that there's just too little of.  What the world needs now, is love, sweet love.  No, not just for some, but for everyone."


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